Why are there so many damn threads about ESTps lately?
And yes, I am aware how ironic the title of this thread is. Irony sucks.![]()
Why are there so many damn threads about ESTps lately?
And yes, I am aware how ironic the title of this thread is. Irony sucks.![]()
"How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
Perhaps because ESTPs have narcissistic tendencies and need to be center of attention?? Do we really need to elaborate on ESTp hidden agenda here??![]()
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
For me, its just because I sincerely want to improve my relations with them.
We get along fabulously at first only to have a big major dramatic clash down the road. I know these aren't bad people and this has a lot to do with build up because I'm unable to confront their behavior as it happens so it becomes one of those give an inch, take a mile situations.
Eventually, I lose my temper. When I lose my temper and patience with someone, I can be verbally very mean. I don't just toss insults like some people too. I analyze them and hit them in the places that hurts them the most. I talk to them like a scientist explaining to a lab rat why they behave as they do.
I end up looking like the biggest b1tch on the planet after the episode.
Many other types will take my hints and back off. I find you have to be direct with ESTps in a way that I'm not good at.
Polly
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Ive been getting annoyed with it.Originally Posted by Baby
Good idea, I don't know much about them either.Originally Posted by Starfall