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    Quote Originally Posted by Narc View Post
    Well I had no qualms about moving with the ILE, that's a very easy living arrangement. We had a chance to get to know each other and generally had pretty good chemistry, so that was no worry. I wasn't sure of the SEIs type initially, but it was either going to work out well (her being proactive and selfless until we got the house all properly established) or begin to turn towards the shit (like it's doing).
    This is extremely normal of the SEIs I collected in my experience : she is consistently putting her own wants ahead of the collective needs of the whole group of us. Si is personal immediate comfort, it´s not even Ni aiming at some farther-away benefits. I´ve even shared a flat for a short while with 2 of them. And this stuff was amplified by sp/sx. Not the same kinds of tensions, but I just insisted until they understood they have to "adapt" to certain responsibilities or boundaries (this was more of a pb for me). I--p usually adapts to environment, circumstances etc if they see they cannot get away with following their own needs exclusively. Or dunno, lol, find a ESE who´s sold on Fe-controlling her and shaming and guilt-tripping her in your favor (the group´s ).
    Last edited by Amber; 01-19-2014 at 12:09 AM.

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