This is extremely normal of the SEIs I collected in my experience : she is consistently putting her own wants ahead of the collective needs of the whole group of us. Si is personal immediate comfort, it´s not even Ni aiming at some farther-away benefits. I´ve even shared a flat for a short while with 2 of them. And this stuff was amplified by sp/sx. Not the same kinds of tensions, but I just insisted until they understood they have to "adapt" to certain responsibilities or boundaries (this was more of a pb for me). I--p usually adapts to environment, circumstances etc if they see they cannot get away with following their own needs exclusively. Or dunno, lol, find a ESE who´s sold on Fe-controlling her and shaming and guilt-tripping her in your favor (the group´s ).



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