Talk about it.
Honestly, as you can see in the "Any Relations" section, I am really considering the value of N in a partner, especially a close partner.
I'm looking for people like Oyburger to comment about this, as she's mentioned being in a relationship with an ES type.
I myself also am into certain aspects of "fantasy" and so forth, a fantasy world in some ways, or at least that sort of mentall open endedness. I wonder how that would affect you in terms of a close relationship, because especially at this time, I would greatly like to share that with another person. I find that with some ESFjs I am not really able to do that, and wonder if there is more success to be found with NFjs, etc.
I wouild want someone to go on the journey with me. It seems, somewhat, that ESFjs would be good for me, but would be more motherly and focused on the S side of things, where I forsee more of a need for N type relatedness.