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    Wow, did I read this wrong

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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    cruelly realistic description of this Mirror

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    Quote Originally Posted by AshSun View Post
    cruelly realistic description of this Mirror
    really? how so?

    so far the only real life example of these relations I've encountered has been this couple from Dr. Phil's show - http://drphil.com/shows/show/1906/ (full episode) - but their relationship issues didn't seem to have much relevance to anything written in Stati's article (control, subjugation and suppression of each other's will, etc.) but were rather rooted in some kind of childhood complexes that they both kept replaying within their marriage

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    even this one embellishes the relationship with spectacular conflicts. The root is not far from truth ... in the sense that she kind of renders pretty well what LSI can think of Sle if they´re wrapped together in the same household or something. With friends or acquaintances it´s much more of a matter of choice so I don´t really think "suppression" of opinion and personality is a problem. But as with many of Stratiyevskaya´s descriptions, I have the impression it all turns into a caricature at some point. By no means was there ever any physical violence involved --- looks like certain pathological or at least socially anomalous cases were chosen as examples for some reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silke View Post
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    " Couples where the husband is of type LSI and the wife of type SLE is a widespread combination of types among Russian couples, a sort of average Soviet family." Is this true, is there such a high percentage of Beta ST citizens in Russia.

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