Example of
(Si) POLR hit:
My ENTj father, who is my supervisor and my greatest love, wails away at my POLr on a daily basis without even realizing it. He constantly talks about school, future plans, work, things I need to be doing, etc. While I realize he does this because he loves me and it's natural for him, it still drives me nuts.
But back to the
POLr part...
My father is an incredibly high-strung, INTENSE individual, always looking to improve and get things done. As a result, he's restless, loud, constantly in motion, and incapable of relaxing. Aware of his propensity toward anxiety, he's OBSESSED with relaxation techniques. He takes a mindfulness meditation class, does yoga, constantly reads books on relaxation, and is on anti-anxiety medication. Despite the fact that his inability to relax is his greatest weakness, he constantly lectures me (uber-anxious INFp) on how to relax and how to feel better about life, despite feverishly gesticulating and bellowing loudly while doing so, haha.
Though I never actually said this to him and (thanks to Socionics) never will, many times I've just wanted to scream,
"HOW ON EARTH CAN YOU TELL ME TO RELAX?! Your very presence does not allow me to relax! You talk about relaxation yet at the same time you only want to discuss the most distressing, depressing topics, and you're shouting at me! You are the least relaxed person I have ever met! Why should I accept advice about relaxation from a person who looks like he's about to have a heart attack every five minutes?! Relaxing is not an analytic process; it's something that you just DO! If you want to learn to relax, just sit down for a minute, put away your silly books, take a warm bath, and don't think about what's bothering you."
Sorry, I got carried away for a moment there, haha. But in my opinion, that would be an example of an
POLR hit.