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Liked for relating to the "miming people" aspect, although I also tend to counter-mime if I don't like people.
Also; I'm not an expert or really knowledgable about socionics, so this comes from general psychology: Don't judge yourself harshly based on this or anything else. Asking "how messed up is that" seems like a request for acknowledgement that you're ok. I feel that you might need to start accepting yourself as is before typing yourself as your negative judgement of certain attitudes might get in the way. Also, its much more fun being you if you're ok with that ;-)
Taking ALL feelings or the global wellfare of the world into account on every small decision or "choice" is a pretty good way to get yourself depressed yes. It is also kinda narcistic since no-one expects you to safe the world on your own. (I used to be like that). Try to reduce the level of specificity to your direct environment and take your own tastes and preferences into account will make life more enjoyable. Also; i think you use your emotional sensitivity as an excuse not to chose, there might be something else behind that. This is something you can't get from typing or even the internet IMHO.
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Also, don't misuse Ni as an excuse not do choose. Trying stuff without predicting good or bad concequences or possible hurdles is a good way to get out of your predicament. You don't need to choose once, you can chooce to change your mind, you'll chooce again. Nothing is set in stone and no path can't be deviated from, even though Ni sometimes suggests this. (read intuition/prediction if Ni doesn't work this way ;-) as said, i'm not a socionics expert)
//non-socionics advice
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