Correlation between sexual domination/submission and type

[rat1]

Only you know your sexual issues and motives.
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[wacey]

Hahaha, okay a good friend and I like to laugh at these from Craigslist, cause we roll like that. When I saw it I immediately thought of this thread.

Rough Sex With A Nice Guy... - m4w - 29


Seeking a safe, sane and open minded gal to get together with on a sem- regular basis. Someone drama free, with a busy life, and sensible.

Hoping for a play partner to explore with, play with and work out similar kinks. Perhaps a closeted deviant. Someone who enjoys sex of the rough variety.

From hair-pulling, to a little choking, cloths ripping, holding you down, against the wall.. a little slapping, and a little humiliation play if you are into that.

Nothing is demanded and nothing is expected. If the mood is not there, I am versed in a wide variety of relevant social topics for deep conversations. I am also usually typically hungry too, especially after post-coital activities, so if you are foodie, we can always check out some new place to eat. ( If you take pictures of your food for your facebook though, I shall probably not call you again )

I am 5"8 with brown eyes and dark hair, I do try to work out regularly, above average dress, enjoys my laughs and my kinks.

Hoping you might be a female version of me, and would like to explore something along the lines of above, please send me an email.

Include a picture and what you like or I'll take it you are spam.

Please put Rough sex in subject

Thanks for reading.

[kopyk]

@Ezra @leftylib and whoever... you should study this theory, it might yield some insights into your inquiries...

[darya]

I'm very submissive, but never in a give up, lie back and do everything you want me to do powerless way. I like power stuggles, provoking, fighting and to be overpowered in the end. I love to fight back and I'm not gentle. The whole process of being wanted and overpowered is a key ingredient, othewise it's just blah. Any sort of caregiver giggling type of sex – does not compute.

BDSM as a lifestyle is not my thing, too unnatural and cheesy.

As far as other types, SLE's are by far the most dominating, from what I've seen. Differences are not that clean cut though, gender influence is too strong.

[Skepsis]

Dominant, submissive, who cares? Just have fun, enjoy.

[Skepsis]

I remember from the time I was a teenager until I was in my early twenties, I used to be a bit more romantic and would include music, flowers, candles, oils, etc every once in a while. It was about sensory experience and emotional intensity. Trying to find somewhere to have sex without getting caught was a bit of a thrill.

Now-a-days, sex is contingent on the kids being preoccupied(are the kids watching a movie? Bedroom...Quick!! Bathroom, shower, anything will do), OR us not falling asleep too soon after they fall asleep. Every now and again I do a romantic night with a nice dinner and atmosphere, but not as often as I used to.

[Creepy-male]

I've been considering this topic for awhile. For the most part I find BDSM to be a bit on the boring side. However, I would say that I'm naturally expressive as a dominant in my everyday life. I find that I can make girls submit to me pretty easily given the right circumstances. I lead a crew of girls once on a job and had some of them calling me Daddy by the end of the first week. I quite enjoyed acting the authoritarian dictator who was also sweet to them after barking out orders. I'm not Chad Thundercock straight man dominant though I am physically imposing in that way. I think if I were to gravitate to a particular BDSM relationship it would be DD/lg (minus the infantilization aspect that some subs get into) or something similar because of the power play that arises from me being both authoritative and sadistic as well as compassionate and playful. The feeling of having total control over someone built over time is quite exciting. The incestuous taboo play of that particular relationship is fun and psychologically stimulating. As with everything I also think in terms of opposites so I also have a more masochistic and submissive side that I don't automatically dive into unless with someone I trust who can bring that out of me and can play with the tensions of the two inclinations. A partner who can be both submissive and dominant is a keeper. The idea of ownership of someone is really appealing but mutual ownership? Divine. All this is wrought with resistance, fights, competition, and attempts at overpowering one another. The one thing I can't stand is permanent role play. I love switching things up and undermining shit to keep things fresh.

I also enjoy deep intimate moments of peace and love without all this pretense to power play and the like.