Quote Originally Posted by InvisibleJim View Post

You could always be the bigger lady and apologise for being rude and aggressive towards Eliza, because even if you don't like her and most of the people here don't, she has a right to contribute even if it mostly says 'Bible' on her posts. Most people here have a number of people who disagree with their self-typing and big wow, because it's socionics. If she doesn't know socionics very well then surely you could help her to understand what she doesn't know in a constructive way.
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This has nothing to do with liking someone. I found a particular post extremely arrogant and I said so. Maybe I could have said it better and more nicely, but I don't always have the time. I try to explain, but I get annoyed when I my words are dismissed as those of a different type who just can't get it. I don't think I have been openly hostile towards her and I don't mind her focus on religion. The one time I objected was when I felt she whitewashed the catholic church, but that was not a way to dismiss her religion (and I have a feeling that she understood what I wanted to say).

You can only explain things when people are open to hearing and applying them, even if for just a moment. I can explain how my Si-seeking manifests or how I process information through NeFi. But when I see her and Maritsa huddle up and talk about "these aggressive SEEs who want to be IEEs because they don't understand themselves," I really lose my desire to explain anything (which is good because this place needs cleaned).