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Where was I abusive?
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Your arrogance
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passive aggressive and underhanded

There is a certain smugness
Applying defamatory statements about a person is abusive. If I approached you and said, "You're a smug, arrogant, passive aggressive and underhanded person", I would have been accused of being abusive from you and your kin. So that's abusive.

Of course these statements are no more abusive than is normal on this forum, but moderators, legitimacy begins at home.