Do you try to 'make' your husband comply to your needs for socializing by asking him to go out with you, meet other people, etc.? Do you 'nag' him to do things or finish things up more quickly and at different points in time than he would naturally do? If yes, those would be good indications of an EXE-XLI supervision.
I don't 'want' to see you as anything. I'm just sharing my observations and being honest about it.
I know. And I know you really liked the Beskova IEE description. Have you read the SLI one? Aside from a few minor objections, it's spot on for me. Does it sound like your husband?
I don't want to derail from Gem, but I'll respond in a pm
Also, you're right- compliments from someone of value is much more important than a pat on the back from a stranger. But I figured that was implied.
And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won't he more surely care for you?- Matthew 6:30