Quote Originally Posted by Park View Post
I am going to have to disagree that this is characteristic of IEEs. This kind of overt/shallow focus on emotions + the way you said you wished your husband was better company for going out and socializing - that sort of "nagging" is very typical of EXE-XLI dynamics - and is why I still experience your presence/energy as that of an Fe base.
Actually i think she has a good point. I definately work well with positive affirmations, and especially from others...as long as i believe they are genuine of course... if i think they are lip service it will have a negative effect on me... i can become quite annoyed.

@applejacks I do believe i am slave to my moods and maybe i do need real life socialisation more and i definately want to work with a real person rather that at home behind my laptop feeling unstimulated. I did go out for a couple of hours last week. But yes i have been detaching/isolating a bit. But i think i have done that to protect people from an angry phase... so i just have these irregular mood cycles and it feels unhealthy. Maybe i focus too much on protecting others.

@InvisibleJim ah yes, i have tried many seats of many colours but i fear it may be the swing itself that is defective, replacing that would be incredibly dangerous. Maybe i need a new playground!