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    Hmm, interesting reading what you wrote. Some part of it is like following a thread that splits into many tiny threads that encompass this forum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    [/INDENT]How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?[/INDENT]
    I'm curious about your answer here squark
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Ah, okay. It seems more as though my friends choose me, Maritsa than the other way around. Those who seem to like me, or find me interesting in some way come to me, and our friendships start that way.

    I don't change my behavior at all, but the longer people know me (as with anyone else) the more sides they see, and the more ease I feel around someone, the more likely they'll see more playfulness and lightheartedness . . . and the more I'll actually talk to them, and tell them my (usually private) thoughts and feelings. But, if I don't trust them, it doesn't matter how long we've known each other, or how much they like me - I'll keep my mouth shut. I really enjoy when people are curious about me and want to know more, and will ask me things - except when I don't want to tell them anything - then they get nothing. I think that's pretty much how everyone else behaves too though. . .

    Another words you don't force relationships. Right?
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Another words you don't force relationships. Right?
    Yeah, I don't force friendships.

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