Duality brings depth, connection anf meaning of various degrees. But what that or any intertype relation does not bring is chemistry. The pull, the sparks, the interest.


A personality type is part of the dimmensions that make someone up, It's not everything. I also fibd im not pulled to every dual. The best chemistry or affection has been with sees and an ese rather than beta friends...while a couple of duals I have had anwzung chemistry with, some barely left much of an emotional indent (abd ive been typing for 5 years now, I know what I'm doing ) I feel more chemistry with my delta parents than my DEFINITE beta sister and alpha sister. I have more conflicts and shit, but more chemistry.

The problem with Socionics is that people see people as walking types. They stop listening to their knowledgeable emotions and natural reasoning about people and listen to the system. Yes, duality is the fucking shiiiit, with the right dual! I limited my self and life too much for not seeing beyond typology and It's not even the right way to see the world, and SO many of us do that here. We need to see beyond types...so you're not attracted to some duals, keep going and listen to your feelings in the moment.