Is incompetent and irresponsible a SEE/ESFp trait?

[Beautiful sky]

Wow, I wonder why you feel a need to be so defensive of her. I wonder why you jump to such rash judgment about me. Is jumping to rash judgement just your normal way? I don't know. Just asking.

Or do you have personal employee/employer issues and you are projecting them onto me? Think about it.

Or are you a SEE and this hits too close to home?

Rash accusing rants do get the most enthusiastic attention on this forum. Look, you got the most "likes!" on this thread! If you crave attention, just make a cutting comment to another poster at 16types.info and you are ensured a barrage of "likes!".

Shayley, Kill4Me, Aquagraph, Deestructor, woofwoofl were all enarmoured with your rants. The only more popular post on this thread was your other (misinformed) judgement:



Nomenclature, Ath, Narc, FDG, Aiss, Ryene Astraelis, the16types, lungs, Raver, dolphin, InvisibleJim, woofwoofl liked this post!

I suspect you are more interested in "likes" than any actual answers to your questions. However in the unlikely case you are, here are some answers:

You assume she is a compassionate caregiver. She is not.

"Light Housework" is always an expectation of caregivers. I have only asked her to load the dishwasher and not leave the day's dishes all over the counter for me to take care of before I can start dinner when I get home. I never asked her to do laundry; she likes doing laundry and picked that all on her own as her way to contribute something amid the daily phone and movie marathons. She started doing extra housework only this week after I asked her if she wanted to do one thing daily of her choice for $5 extra per day. She did. I gave her a long list of options and said pick one thing,whatever you want, each day.


The nausea is from whatever is swirling around in your head.


Where in the world did I say I was a Christian? Your prejudices are showing. Stick to the topic.

Those are things she remembers about you that she's willing to throw at your face to get an emotional reaction out of you, that's the only way she can read who you are. Discontinue engaging LOL

*whispers to you* She's an IEI type

[Eliza Thomason]

Those are things she remembers about you that she's willing to throw at your face to get an emotional reaction out of you, that's the only way she can read who you are. Discontinue engaging LOL

Oh my gosh I should be real good at that. Its what we do with my behaviorally-challenged autistic student. "Discontinue engaging" is our most powerful redirection technique. I have to actively look over his head or behind his ear to avoid [the reward of] eye-contact when he is shrieking.

*whispers to you* She's an IEI type

Hmm. Shh. I will have to read up on my possible future daughter-in-law...Not terribly impressed right now** but I most of all I want my son to be happy...(IEI is SLE Dual.)

**Oh! Fe.

[Kill4Me]

Oh my gosh I should be real good at that. Its what we do with my behaviorally-challenged autistic student. "Discontinue engaging" is our most powerful redirection technique. I have to actively look over his head or behind his ear to avoid [the reward of] eye-contact when he is shrieking.

You bitch.