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    I love my dual.

    "What should we do next?"
    "Paint the door."
    "What color."
    "This shade of red I wanted."
    "Let's get it."
    .....we spend 5 hrs painting a door.

    The following week, kids come over and put a tiny dink in it.
    "Oh well, they're only kids."
    "It's only stuff."

    Love, family, relations...that's what matters the most.
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    What color are you going to paint the door?
    Red.
    Nothing says love quite like murder red.
    ...Whatever. We'll paint it when i get back.
    (We?) FUCK.
    Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pookie View Post
    What color are you going to paint the door?
    Red.
    Nothing says love quite like murder red.
    ...Whatever. We'll paint it when i get back.
    (We?) FUCK.
    LOL Pookie
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post


    I love my dual.

    "What should we do next?"
    "Paint the door."
    "What color."
    "This shade of red I wanted."
    "Let's get it."
    .....we spend 5 hrs painting a door.

    The following week, kids come over and put a tiny dink in it.
    "Oh well, they're only kids."
    "It's only stuff."

    Love, family, relations...that's what matters the most.
    What type of door takes 5 hours to paint?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Words View Post
    What type of door takes 5 hours to paint?
    I was going to say, an LSE would not take 5 hours to paint a door. Maybe an IEE or EII would.. but not an LSE.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    I was going to say, an LSE would not take 5 hours to paint a door. Maybe an IEE or EII would.. but not an LSE.
    What if it was a reallly, realllllly big door?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Words View Post
    What type of door takes 5 hours to paint?
    A new front door of a house; she gets taken with time and loses herself in the work. Te with Ni PolR issues, just same old for LSE.
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    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    I didn't read all of this but what I read is literally my daily life with my annoying IEI sister

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missmessy View Post
    I didn't read all of this but what I read is literally my daily life with my annoying IEI sister
    lol at the initiating bottom line post and this one, I don't like my sister either.

    She's too dang grounded and regular and routine and nothing extravagant or holy!!
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    Pokemon is somewhere fun over the Rainbow emblazoned by the Power of 4ever. The clouds soar and the island escalates a Lugia petal dance tempest blizzarding shiny Ash. Evanescence sparkles glistening auroras of mirth and high frequency channels embarking with the winds of new beginnings. This magical adventure turns on at the dawn of time in 2000. Ceremony and enchantment dazzle the world with colors galore. Mania and extravagance shape shift and transform into the greatest show on earth, the evolution of Pokemon
    Something has arrived. That threatens to throw everything terribly out of balance. When it comes, will you accept your destiny? And when it’s your chance to be a hero, will you rise to the challenge? This year, discover how 1 person can make all the difference! Pokemon the Movie 2000 The Power of 1

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