My personality and social proclivities are practically set in stone at this point. I don’t have the youthful optimism, lust for life or naivety to effect any positive momentum in my life In my current state—I’ve seen everything life has to offer people like me and know too much. Plastic surgery’s easier and more effective
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Well I don't mean to sugar coat things but 1% is better than 0% right? Means there is still heterosexual hope for you. Even if it was only .3% ... still better than what some men have.I’m pretty comfortable physically escalating once attraction’s been established, but I’m very hesitant to approach or ask girls out because I’m aware that I appeal to 1% of the female population, tops.
Maybe it will help make it feel all the more special when you do find the right woman. /overly idealistic rainbow IEI eyes.
I am a gay man and I don't like being a gay best friend either only because you are looked down at too much in that role, even if you are gay and funny. Like me. You are treated as an accessory and emotional tampon and not really even like a person with your own views and feelings. They also rant about their life narcissistically to you- but they don't ever really want to hear about yours. They also don't even really like gay men tbh they just like to steal our empathy. If somebody is going to be my fag hag, I want it to be more equal than that. Not sure this sort of thing would send me to a psychotic murderous rage like it does in some str8 males though- as the dynamics are inherently different but I can't imagine actually liking to be treated that way.
I don't even see real women treat gay guys like that much IRL- but I see it on TV a lot for some reason. Illuminati mind control? Some narcissistic women IRL probably treat gay guys like that because TV makes it okay for them to do so.
Aw @Delilah I never felt you treated me this way. But yeah idk I think people in general follow stuff they see on TV way too much for good or bad. It is a bit creepy to me but whatever.
Well I guess in some ways... gay males aren't as harsh as str8 men and that makes us better listeners or whatever. But yea I'm not really into being anybody's emotional sponge. Just gets draining after awhile.