I can't figure out which ennea type I am. Maybe I'm 6 or 9 under stress :/ Those who are 9 or 6 (and others, of course) can you help me? I have some questions:
for enneagram 6's
Is there anything that makes you angrier than someone turning on you that you've given your loyalty to and even if this happen, it's difficult for you to cut those people from your life?
Can you be over emotionally needy?
Do you fear something physical to happen or your anxiety and fear is more internal?
It is said that they are like a "crown" of enneagram, the glue that holds community together but ... it is also said that they avoid self analysing which prevents them from growing. But how you can be so called diamond of enneagram without self developemend?
Also, 9's do not want their inner stability to be affected or influenced by other people, but their purpose of life is to to help maintain the wholeness and well-being of others. Contradictions everythere!
Or maybe you have some tips and tricks which helps to find out accurate type? I would be very glad if you share!