Hey guys
i have two friends who tested ISTJ on myers briggs. This was a few years ago so i thought they were both ISTJs (Ti + Se).
Since socionics i realize one is ISTp and the other is ISTj.
And i noticed a marked difference in their hugging style!! the ISTj's is similar to mine.
how are your hugs? Robust or a pat on the back? what's your type? does your style vary within certain groups (such as family)?


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but I could summarize it like this: in relationships I hug fairly often, other than that I gladly respond to other people hugging me (unless they do somekind of surprise hug in which case I usually just get scared) but I never initiate a hug even if it is a friend. How I hug? I try to imitate the hugging style they are using. If it is a "distant" hug then I do that too. If it is a squeeeeeze hug then I squeeeeeze hug too basically. In case of a distant hug I usually try to make it a bit warmer by patting their back or something like that. Too distant and formal hugs are blah
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