Building erotic attitudes off of this has also annoyed me as sex many times is just about the nature of attraction... I don't have to be duals with some woman to be turned on by her sexually, and its entirely possible that my dual will do something that turns me off. Say if my dual is a man, then psychologically the relationship is good I guess based on the fact I'm getting that Si and Fe I need, but I don't want to have sex with him. So isn't a bit ridiculous to assume that if its a woman then we obviously are sexually compatible?
lol did you just include this paragraph to amuse me? It's a bit narc of me to assume that, but I never really thought you were one of the guys hiding his sexuality so I don't see the need to point out your heterosexuality. or maybe this forum is just so gay; straight guys have to come out of the closet as straight?

This is off/topic and a derail, and you can pm me this if you want, but I just genuinely wonder why you care so much about homosexuality and stuff despite being a straight guy. I'm not trying to accuse you of anything. Or were you just trying to be nice and inclusive because you respect our friendship? If so: aw, but you kinda got me intrigued via your motivations.

I don't think all guys are trying to hide their gayness on here just some. For example I think invisiblejim is straight, I think hkkmr is straight, I think heath is straight. I think cpig is straight. (there are others)

I'm really sorry I know im being a bit narc. (sarah silverman smile) But please understand my intentions are innocent in this. I think with your high empathy you can sense this.