I think that's a mistaken thing. We all need to be touched in life, to feel loved- if not by a lot of people then at least one other person. You can't do it alone, alone is how you got in the mess in the first place. That's what a reasonably good spiritual guru told me.I am more interested in solutions that do not require another person, instead solutions that make you more complete individually, without a dual. What do you think?
Having healthy relationships doesn't mean you 'lose yourself' or your own independence, in another person - it means you balance your own narcissism with theirs, creating a unity that is so strong it can't even be psychoanalyzed by really skilled sadists that just want to see the whole world burn. Otherwise you miss the mark and think you have everything figured out, when really you do not.



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