I want to discuss/find solutions to the peculiarities that were brought up in this thread

Originally Posted by Gilly

INTj, ENTp, INFj, ENFp
Paranoid Se: "Sometimes it feels like the world is working against me; I never have everything I need to accomplish my goals. I just want one person who will always help me, even when it feels like everyone else is working against me."
Basic desire: To be supported

ESFj, ISFp, ESTj, ISTp
Paranoid Ni: "I feel like I don't have any purpose in the world; I wander through life without really being sure of what I'm going to do with myself. I just want one person to need me so I know that, if all else fails, I have something to live for."
Basic desire: To be needed

ISTj, ESTp, ISFj, ESFp
Paranoid Ne: "I'm never sure of what I'm really capable of. I'm always ready for a challenge, but I'm never really sure whether or not I have what it takes. I need a person who can test me, and help me feel reassured about my abilities."
Basic desire: To be evaluated

INFp, ENFj, INTp, ENTj
Paranoid Si: "I often feel like nobody values or needs me. I want someone who is willing to strive to attain me, so that I know that I'm worth fighting for."
Basic desire: To be desired
To me, from what I see, it seems that finding your dual is a large part of solving these problems. I am more interested in solutions that do not require another person, instead solutions that make you more complete individually, without a dual. What do you think?