Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
Well military personnel (along with corporate management, many teachers, etc) saying you have an "attitude problem" is likely a sign of strong ego boundaries, because their whole goal is to break your ego and replace it with their own system of values.
woah...

I have had several bosses say, "I can't break [DJArendee]" as if they're perfectly aware of what they're trying to do.

So this is a form of control? People who do this are TRYING TO CONTROL me?

Do they not see something fucking wrong with that?

So essentially there's nothing wrong with telling employers "I cannot be controlled?" I'm under the impression that's a huge turnoff to a lot of employers because I've been conditioned to think I need to learn how to "bend over" and be submissive when this is something that is physiologically impossible for me to do unless I feel like dealing with neuroses and gerd. Its the reason I feel as if I've been FORCED into the entrepreneurial world.