That makes a lot of sense. I think that the IEIs I know (including myself) tend to use Fe (also probably mixed with a little Fi) to accomplish goals instead of defining lifestyle. For example, I can be very friendly to win over friends, divert anger and get people to change their minds. I try to see the best in people, even when I'm aware of what I don't like about them. I think if people understand I am for them, they are more likely to let me help them.
By contrast, my EIE friend tends to be more critical of people, making people want to work toward gaining his acceptance. He is more emotional to the core than me, he just often isn't open as open about. He inspires people by living out his conscience instead of being friendly to people. He is much better at leading and inspiring a group while I generally only have the energy to focus on a few people. I think I tend to be more loyal and he, more charismatic.
A good example from literature is Captain Nemo from 20000 leagues under the sea. He is a little stand-off-ish, but he is loved for the intensity of his emotion.



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