Your frustrations with IEI's are my frustrations with ESI's. ESI's and SLE's are both "aggressors" and don't like it when the other person shows too much interest. Often times the ESI's I meet are actually interested in me... up until I'm interested in them. Then we distance one another... then look back and remember why we were attracted to each other in the first place. Its a fucking pain in the ass and I've never succeeded with an ESI. (They also look somewhat similar in certain ways).
Are you sure you're chasing the right women? Do you even tell them you're interested?
Or do you listen to too much advice from "victim" attitudes who tell you "never reveal your interest! Always be a challenge! Let them come to you!"
I'm curious to know what your malfunction is.
The IEI-Ni's I've met all seem to talk in riddles. They're a puzzle to be solved, they post videos on their facebook walls to send me very specific messages. Etc, as if the process is really complicated... it isn't. For us, its quite easy. Tell them you're interested, and ask them out a million times until they punch you in the face and stop being nice to you and all sexual tension between you dissipates. If you're doing anything else than that, you're wrong.




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