
Originally Posted by
Fireyed
Maybe IEI Fe types tend to be more social?
Being IEI Ni, I tend to be more of a recluse by nature. I avoid all social environments when and if possible. I'm the type who has to be dragged into social settings. I really have to force myself to socialize with people (this becomes easier with practice). My SLE Se bf on the other hand is a complete 100% attention whore with zero boundaries. He's the kind of person who can walk up to a group of strangers and act as if he's known them for years. He's the total opposite of me when it comes to this stuff (I'm an extreme introvert while he's an extreme extrovert) He loves social settings, getting peoples attention and one of his favorite things to do is to drag me out of my comfort zone. Even though I outwardly loathe him doing this to me, I secretly appreciate it because I've learned so many useful skills that I wouldn't have otherwise picked up without him.
When I do grow comfortable and finally come out of my shell I'm often the light of the party. The hardest part for me is that warming up stage.