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  • sp/so

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  • sp/sx

    6 46.15%
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Thread: Fen's Enneagram Type Poll

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    Also, I feel like the effect of the E-type on a stacking isn't really being considered.

    Anyway, I will compare the two.
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    Sp/Sx - Likely to neglect their desire to seek intense connections and experiences for the sake of their primary concern of maintaining physical saftey, comfort, and an orderly lifestyle, in average-healthy levels. May not have an awareness of the need to connect in a broader sense with the world, of a sense of security or in groups or of the need to seek it, or even of the need to foster approval, support, and understanding of themselves within groups they are connected with, often causing misunderstandings with allies, supporters, friends, and family members.

    I have issues with my family because I don't really consider us a family. I don't even really know what family means, but the obligations of what "family" is are annoying to me, and I don't enjoy having to fit whatever expectations go along with that establishment. I do see the importance of family but I'm not very good at establishing or maintaining it. This tendency of mine probably annoys Ben more than anyone in my life. And he is probably sp/so or so/sp in my opinion. And he often lectures me about it. A good example is...his parents like his hair short. And he explains that he cuts his hair just to keep peace with them because they are his family. And I find that whole incentive to cut your hair absurd.

    Sp/So - Likely to neglect their desire to build their sense of personal value, accomplishment, and security of place with others for the sake of their primary concern of maintaining physical safey, comfort, and an orderly lifestyle, in average-healthy levels. May not have an awareness of the need to stimulate the mind or emotions, of a sense of deep excitement or enthusiasm, of a need for intimate experiences, of the need for the unfamiliar. May fall into routines and, despite social connection, may feel a strange disconnection even from spouses, friends, and family.
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    Self-Preservation Primary / Social Support
    "The Withdrawn Submissive"

    Expression: withdrawn calm, smiley expression
    Energy: calm, steady energy expressed outward
    Behavior: withdrawn, calm, smiley and submissive
    Mindset: "If I can maintain position and inclusion in the group/world, I can make sure of and keep my orderly and pleasing lifestyle." (May try to be just appealing and connected with groups enough for everyone to get out of their hair. )
    Examples: Raymond (Everybody Loves Raymond)

    I don't think like that at all. That isn't my motivation for being accommodating and 9-ish. I explained in a previous post that I recognize my disconnection from groups, but that I don't really do anything to change it, because I don't consider it worth my energy. I honestly disappear in groups, and rather end up just talking to one person, or no one at all. And that suits me fine.

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    Self-Preservation Primary / Sexual Support
    "Beautiful Dreamer"

    Expression: wistful self-absorbed expression, sighing, magic is in their head
    Energy: calm, steady energy expressed intensely, withdrawing
    Behavior: withdrawn, calm, wistful and self absorbed
    Mindset: "I can have merging/intensity without having to leave my orderly & pleasing lifestyle." (imagination, safe people and relationships, when the safety of these are challenged they withdraw)
    Examples: Alanis Morisette, Amelie (Amelie)
    Last edited by fen; 11-30-2012 at 01:00 AM.
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