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  • sp/so

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  • sp/sx

    6 46.15%
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  • sx/sp

    1 7.69%
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Thread: Fen's Enneagram Type Poll

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    I'm settling on sp/sx. I just don't buy being sx last over so last. @Raver - Definitely few close relationships as I am very guarded against acquaintances as a general rule and am not fond of bouncing from person to person for light-hearted conversations. Can't be myself except around like 2 people and I probably come off as disinterested to most people. But I can't push myself to act in ways that would prove I'm not that way...so.. I wouldn't be surprised if people who don't know me think I'm standoffish or cold or something, because I probably appear that way to a lot of people, unless I'm interacting with someone I am very close to. Then I probably appear quite the opposite.

    A good example is my interaction with my roommates who I am still getting to know, and will probably never be very close with. They spend a lot of time in the living room watching tv, talking, sharing things they find online. I don't spend a lot of time out there because I don't like being expected to really care about that stuff, because I don't. This all might sound cynical or something, but I'm perfectly happy right now. But anyway...when I am out there, I am usually doing my own thing on my laptop, watching what they are watching if I find it interesting, and I usually keep any comments I have to myself. Man do I sound introverted. Hah.

    But yeah, to sum it up -- I know I may appear disinterested and cold and boring even. And it does bother me a bit because I don't think I'm any of those things once I get close to a person. But I don't really care enough to keep up appearances. And this is why I'm opting for sp/sx > sp/so.
    @siuntal - In the past you remarked that I VI sp/so in this picture:


    This might be because I don't feel connected to the people I'm with (my roommates). I was very detached from them and their expectation of me smiling with my teeth for the picture so that I "look like I want to be there". I do tend to make that expression for pictures, though. Virtually every picture of me has me smiling with pursed lips like that. If anything this says so-last to me, but I'm curious of what you interpret it to mean.
    I also have this terrible habit of smiling downwards like in my profile picture for the forum and here:

    I don't really understand it. Hah.
    Anyway..
    Last edited by fen; 11-28-2012 at 08:11 AM.
    And I would hide my face in you and you would hide your face in me, and nobody would ever see us any more.


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