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    Well I worked in landscaping for years so I doubt I would find an ESTj who is better at it then me. But having said that, their hidden adgenda is to be perfect and this includes the lawn, if they have one. Could you really see an ESTj (or ESFj for that matter) leaving the grass over grown all summer? I think an INFj already has a hundred other things going and not inexhaustable amounts of energy, besides, who is going to walk the dogs?. Yeesh.

    @Absurd, you have touched on the ultimate INFj delimma: (well at least for me) they do not want to appear as though they need help, or even want help, and to the outside they have it all together, but man does discouragment lurk in the sidelines waitinjg to pounce. My advice would be to help anyway but not appear as though you are helping. Its fucked up I know. But the saving grace is that INFj can pick up and keep soldiering on. They do appreciate small services because (sadly maybe?)Having interests cared for helps them to loosen up.
    Last edited by wacey; 06-01-2013 at 10:06 PM.

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