
Originally Posted by
noid
new relationship with an ESTJ (friend) ending like disaster because he's not able to not provoke ressentment in other, + unable to question himself, + unable to understand smth like exchange, giving, friendship.
I maked myself in the position "working on myself" in all the relationship for him, making myself thinking I'm not appreciated for what I'm, but at the end I understand that everyone can have thing that can be corrected. But he eventually pushed it to the nazi limit, even at the end thinking Ive done nothing for him. Lol. I take back my records wich are in his house, buy the part of his collection he want to sell (I gave at least 10 records to him for free wich costed smth like 30/50 euros on discogs and he want to sell to me them back for 40 lol).
In estj, Fi is not related to anything like moral or relationship.