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    First off, not everybody wants the charming 'asshole' narcissitic hollywood jock.

    I dated a guy that was overweight and didn't have the best sex appeal. I didn't care much, because he was so secure in himself in other ways. I mean I sorta wished he was hot too of course but you gotta accept people how they are.

    You're trying too hard to be perfect. Like Gilly has done in the past and woofwoofl too and Ashton and a few other people. You already are perfect though: Or you wouldn't exist. There would be no aquagraph, your unique punk rock boy likes to cum on cats essence.

    You just have to show a person who really deserves it, I mean a person you really like, it sounds really corny but true: You just have to show them your beautiful heart. "You have to risk your heart for love to find you, not afraid to look vulnerable" which you already are doing on this thread by admitting weakness. It's not about these 'appearances' that you shallow middle-class assholes think it is. I seriously want to beat most people on this forum up. (In a loving way of course)

    And I have confidence that I would win. Don't underestimate my kindness. I would fucking wreck your shit up.

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    And it might be gay ish and Glee ish and you might all mock it from your straight male vantage points but seriously.

    "We're all losers dude."

    that's the point. =p

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    First off, not everybody wants the charming 'asshole' narcissitic hollywood jock.

    I dated a guy that was overweight and didn't have the best sex appeal. I didn't care much, because he was so secure in himself in other ways. I mean I sorta wished he was hot too of course but you gotta accept people how they are.

    You're trying too hard to be perfect. Like Gilly has done in the past and woofwoofl too and Ashton and a few other people. You already are perfect though: Or you wouldn't exist. There would be no aquagraph, your unique punk rock boy likes to cum on cats essence.

    You just have to show a person who really deserves it, I mean a person you really like, it sounds really corny but true: You just have to show them your beautiful heart. "You have to risk your heart for love to find you, not afraid to look vulnerable" which you already are doing on this thread by admitting weakness. It's not about these 'appearances' that you shallow middle-class assholes think it is. I seriously want to beat most people on this forum up. (In a loving way of course)

    And I have confidence that I would win. Don't underestimate my kindness. I would fucking wreck your shit up.
    Lol Sammy I love you and your big fluffy self. It's so beautiful to see so much openness from someone who could easily fuck up just about everyone who talks tough on this forum. You are my precious shining light
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bardia View Post
    Seems like the first question you have to answer for yourself is do I want to change? Is what you are doing a problem for yourself? It seems like you said it is a problem for other people, but I didn't get a clear read on if this something you don't like about yourself.
    I think the thread is about the negativity that stems from the conflict I want to alleviate.
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
    You obviously don't understand how it started. I simply stated that he doesn't know what love is, which is a cold and dry fact. I'm just the messenger here, and he simply started shooting at me.
    It's true. I don't mind shooting the messenger when it's not about what he said but about how he said it. As I made fucking clear, I agreed most of your first post, unlike the classical guy that shoots his messenger. Where did you learn what is Love™? Just source checking your "cold and dry" love facts.
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    Bump.

    Watch out, Aqua. Cold and dry facts are the death or something like that.

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    Cold and dry facts about love, aha...
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by k0rpsy View Post
    Standing by for indignant IEE jibberjabber in defense of dumb interpersonal misinterpretations confused with truth...
    I didn't want you to be disppointed...soo....

    @Aquagraph (and @mikemex )
    Imo, "love" doesn't have one meaning, nor would it be something that is felt in only one way. Aquagraph, perhaps it would be helpful to consider the Triangular Theory of Love:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love

    According to this theory, there are at least 7 types of love, plus a nonlove.
    The theory covers three different aspects to love...intimacy, passion, decision/commitment.
    Differing combinations of these three aspects yields:

    Intimacy -> liking (friendship)
    Passion -> infatuation (limerance)
    Commitment -> empty love (like a business arrangement or arranged marriage)
    Intimacy + Passion -> romantic love (poetic, but unsustained by commitment)
    Intimacy + Commitment -> companionate love (often seen in a long term relationship, after the passon has fizzled by stresses and aging)
    Passion + Commitment -> fatuous love (whirlwind marriagess)
    Intimacy + Passion + Commitment -> consummate love (the supposedly 'ideal' love...but rarely can be sustained for extended times...often turning into companionate love)

    And even with these different kinds of love...the degrees of intensity of each aspect can vary. Perhaps it'd be easier to imagine it in percentages with the total equaling 100%. or...as a dot in a triangular field. There's so many places any dot can fit into that triangular field, just as there's so many different ways to love.

    Aquagraph, I see nothing wrong with being passionate, or being romanticly in love with someone. Just so long as you don't imply more than which aspect you're actually feeling. Also, be aware that lovers have their own ideas about what they want from you, and what they feel for you...which is why it might be helpful to learn to communicate about this better. This can be communicated/discussed with or without drink. But while it might destroy the mood a bit, I'd suggest communicating it BEFORE the sexual act (or whatever other act 'seals the agreement'), to help reduce miscommunication, and unexpected expectations.

    Mikemex...you were being a messenger of your own message...it shouldn't have come as a surprise that you'd be shot at. Perhaps if you got off your high horse on your personal ideal of 'twue love' your message would have been more relevant to your intended receiver.


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    Hmm, does that mean I'm going to know what sort of love has befallen me after reading that book, anndelise?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Absurd View Post
    Hmm, does that mean I'm going to know what sort of love has befallen me after reading that book, anndelise?
    Maybe.
    No need to read a book though, just the wikipedia page.
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    Quote Originally Posted by anndelise View Post
    Maybe.
    No need to read a book though, just the wikipedia page.
    Going to have to experience it after reading.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anndelise View Post
    I didn't want you to be disppointed...soo....
    Sorry, ann, but you provided a constructive and thought-provoking addition to the conversation without intractably entangling yourself in a self-created tar pit of pervasive cognitive distortions and misguided finger-pointing. Attribute this to your membership among what I regard as the reasonable group of IEEs*, who possess a healthy dose of meta-awareness that reduces faulty assumptions and unnecessary over-personalization. This reasonable IEE group can participate equitably, competently, and rationally in dialectical investigations/exchanges. The unreasonable group of IEEs, on the other hand, reflexively produce the sort of reactive, illogical, and obstinately self-deceiving garbage that I referred to. Better luck next time at exemplifying the worst that and have to offer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by k0rpsy View Post
    Sorry, ann, ...[]...
    *sigh* I'll try to do better next time. For now I'll just console myself with the knowledge that if you ever had to interact with me offline, I'd likely confirm every negative idea you have of IEE.



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    Quote Originally Posted by anndelise View Post
    @Aquagraph (and @mikemex )
    Imo, "love" doesn't have one meaning, nor would it be something that is felt in only one way. Aquagraph, perhaps it would be helpful to consider the Triangular Theory of Love:
    I'm aware of that and it's my most favorite theory about the essence of love. And it's a bit more academic than The Little Prince.

    PS: Empty love also often covers the old couple who are afraid to die alone.
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    THE INVOCATION OF THE RING

    ADONAI! Thou inmost D,
    Self-glittering image of my soul,
    Strong lover to thy Bride's desire,
    Call me and claim me and control!
    I pray Thee keep the holy tryst
    Within this ring of Amethyst.



    For on mine eyes the golden Q
    Hath dawned; my vigil slew the night.
    I saw the image of the One:
    I came from darkness into L.V.X.
    I pray Thee keep the holy tryst
    Within this ring of Amethyst.



    I.N.R.I - me crucified,
    Me slain, interred, arisen, inspire!
    T.A.R.O. - me glorified,
    Anointed, fill with frenzied D!
    I pray Thee keep the holy tryst
    Within this ring of Amethyst.



    I eat my flesh: I drink my blood
    I gird my loins: I journey far:
    For thou hast shown m, +

    u, 777, kamhlon,
    I pray Thee keep the holy tryst
    Within this ring of Amethyst.



    Prostrate I wait upon Thy will,
    Mine Angel for this grace of union.
    O let this sacrament distil
    Thy conversation and communion.
    I pray Thee keep the holy tryst
    Within this ring of Amethyst.
    "Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."

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    Thank you, Aivonaima.
    I don't remember if I mentioned but I was planning to do some spells as well. Probably going to resort to simple sigils. Although I might have some painful rituals for them.
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    As long as you remember there's only love and the unity/separation save for the Holy Emptiness.
    "Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."

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    My name is Lola, because I am the Key of Delights, and the other children in my dream call me Lola Daydream. When I am awake, you see, I know that I am dreaming, so that they must be very silly children, don't you think? There are people in the dream, too, who are quite grown up and horrid; but the really important thing is the wake-up person. There is only one, for there could never be any one like him. I call him my Fairy Prince. He rides a horse with beautiful wings like a swan, or sometimes a strange creature like a lion or a bull, with a woman's face and breasts, and she has unfathomable eyes.

    My Fairy Prince is a dark boy, very comely; I think every one must love him, and yet every one is afraid. He looks through one just as if one had no clothes on in the Garden of God, and he had made one, and one could do nothing except in the mirror of his mind. He never laughs or frowns or smiles; because, whatever he sees, he sees what is beyond as well, and so nothing ever happens. His mouth is redder than any roses you ever saw. I wake up quite when we kiss each other, and there is no dream any more. But when it is not trembling on mine, I see kisses on his lips, as if he were kissing some one that one could not see.

    Now you must know that my Fairy Prince is my lover, and one day he will come for good and ride away with me and marry me. I shan't tell you his name because it is too beautiful. It is a great secret between us.





    "Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."

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