Well, there isn't. Problems arise when you as the real "you" meet the idolised "you", which is not "you", when you actually try to become something you're not. Even a tone deaf person can learn the notes.
Are you talking about sociotype? Just another identity - we have to call a tree a tree, there is no other choice. Where is the problem in that? Use it for awhile, drop it when no longer nessasary.