Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
I'll tell you how you trap an LSE
Don't be honestly yourself. Always smile at them and never ever say anything that shows your honesty especially if the honesty is showing them their bad side or their side which they can help to learn from because it makes them feel uncomfortable to be challenged, it challenges their authority and self image. Never say bad things to them and always show them love and positivity. But if you are honest and brave you will stand up for what you see to be honest and truthful and you will say what you see because it's the ethical thing to do.
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THIS IS HOW TO HAVE A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP DO NOT FOLLOW THIS ADVICE


if this is a "LSE" or anyone who gives a damn about you or having a good relationship, they'll want to know your honest feelings, even if it is unpleasant.

Maybe you don't know this about "LSE" or Te dominant people (or people who like healthy relationships), but I personally hate pandering to emotions, or "only telling me what I think I want to hear" - that is the absolute surest way for me to not trust you or be around you. It also goes against a hallmark of being Fi dominant: valuing Fi > Fe, putting your own personal sentiments above 'mood', etc.

If someone bases their responses entirely contingent upon what they think i want to hear, not only do I not trust them, I generally think they need to work on themselves to become comfortable with who they really are. It's very hard to find peace or good relationships this way, and I can't imagine this is being suggested as a way to find a significant relationship of any kind - if you follow this advice to its fullest you will be enabling some terrible relationship practices - and it's not something I would ever suggest EIIs, delta NFs, or anyone who is already inclined to overcompensate by self muting.

*Still Cringing*