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Serious Left-Static Negativist
Wow, sometimes this forum feels like I just walked into the home of a really scrappy, fighting family... And I feel bad seeing the hard feelings, especially between people I like. @anndelise, I have no reason to think you are not IEE as you say, except for the fact that Marista gets you so angry! And my INFJ-mirror friends never make me feel angry. Occasionally misunderstood on an issue, but I am unbothered by it. And its not because I take everything easy - there are other types who do consistently bother me. But I do see how being mistyped is a legitimate cause annoyance.
Clearly, you are an "E" type because you are so outspoken about what bothers you, and also clearly you are a "P" type because it seems, with Marista, its "J"-related things she does that get under your skin. Specifically, her being so sure of what she concluded. Realize that J-types are decisive and are more likely than "P" types to make rash judgements and stick to them. I am not saying Marista has done that here. But if you feel she has, it seem you could chalk it up to that. I understand how an affront to your own identity can be so infuriating, and I am thinking you could simply PM Marista, or just say it on a thread, "I am happy/confident with how I have typed myself. Your questioning it really bothers me. Would you please not do it anymore?"
And that leads me to ask, @Marista Darmandzhyan, since you have the sensitivity of an INFJ -- you must see how your insisting that Anndelise is a SEE annoys her to no end, and disrupts her peace, so, even if you have this theory she is a SEE, why don't you just back it off with her, since its clear she does not like you questioning her type? I do see how typing is an interest/talent which you put more thought into than a portion of others here do, so I understand. If you want to share your reasoning on your clues about specific typing here, in the case of @anndelise and any others that might be offended, then you could PM your observations/conclusions to one or two forum friends with a shared particular-interest in typing people - rather than post it on the board where Anndelise has to read it - and then must publicly defend herself, again.
Last edited by Eliza Thomason; 08-06-2012 at 04:55 PM.
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