Quote Originally Posted by The Ineffable View Post
All in all, with ILIs I spend a lot of value time that I never regret. Oh, when I depend on or need something from them, they tend to delay things too much, and I have to become insistent, calling them, pushing them from behind. For some reason they don't understand the urgency of someone's needs, like they're living in a timeless story which you can interrupt and resume whenever you want. And they have a total detachments of these imperative matters [1] as if it is not important whether they are in the end addressed or not. For example if you depend on them to pursue an opportunity, they seem not to understand that opportunities are temporary and need to be addressed as soon as possible. They IME share this trait with all Ip people. The train is departing, Joe, you either take it or you're left behind.
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[1] - I know that this "imperativeness" is subjective, but to me it exists, should Lao Tze twist in his grave!
Are you projecting? Seriously? Every ENTp I know is a big pain in my fucking ass because they don't answer your fucking phone calls until 3 weeks after the fact, they procrastinate like fuck, they are scattered, and honestly, they seem to not give a shit about much of anything.

Opportunities are to be taken if they are meaningful, but I'm not really sure if an ENTp commonly can decide "what is a meaningful opportunity" vs. what is not. It's like a cat eating multiple kinds of cat food. They are all opportunities, and they all taste good. I'm an Ip, but I'm discerning. I can describe and understand Tender Vittles vs. Natural Balance.

I don't know wtf ILEs have out for ILIs but....... it's obviously something.