SLE could still work. Its just wierd how I feel like I fit the logic of LIE, (I might be dynamic, all that other stuff) yet I would rather be an SLE. SLE just sounds more like what I want to be.
My admiration for ESI's (and frustration that every attempt I've made has never worked out long term) could also be in part because of this:
Aggressor: Aggressors tend to perceive other Aggressors as exciting partners worthy of admiration and respect, but ultimately unsatisfactory due to a sense of never-ending competition for an ill-defined "upper hand", which becomes frustrating.



