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    Let's fly now Gilly's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    Several questions, and by several I mean two.

    1. Why is E8 a no go? I dont know about being a 3, I get annoyed if I get too much praise for accomplishing something.
    I'm actually a 3 and am the same way. I really don't care to be praised; I've come to realized that I assume people are impressed with me, and actual direct feedback seems like unnecessary reassurance better directed at someone who doesn't already think so much of themselves. I never assume I have people's support, but I am usually good at rewarding myself for what I do well. It's a double edged sword though, people who know me start to really believe that I am fully this arrogant, and therefore don't need any kind of affirmation, which is the opposite of the truth.

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    just read about unhealthy enneagram 3's... holy shit... they're the reason I quit the military. The entire god damn military is full of psychopathic narcissists who hate seeing other people happy. Yeah I'm telling you right now I'm not one of them. In fact they're the cause of all my life's problems.
    Funny, we usually react most vehemently to qualities we subconsciously know are part of our own psyche. I have a similar reaction to people who behave in such a manner; I tend to feel like they are just unnecessary beings of negative energy who don't deserve to live.
    Last edited by Gilly; 07-16-2012 at 01:31 PM.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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