Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
UGHHHHHHH you are extremely frustrating to talk to.
You are the one that started down this "insecurity" topic's path. I WAS COMMENTING ON THIS: ps: the typewatch people think no one is an 8 until proven otherwise, and get seemingly upset, belligerent even, when someone suggests they're an 8 but aren't really sure themselves. That was my complaint. I sense some kind of insecurity from most of their posts which makes me further believe they're full of shit. Something you completely pulled out of your ass.
I do have empathy, but you make personal attacks towards other people and it grates on my nerves when you suddenly rationalize it by playing all misunderstood victim.
Sry life sucks for at the moment, really we've all been there, but stop pulling crap out of your ass and then maybe I could respect your rationale on things?
Now that someone mentioned LII........hmmmmm.......
@lungs hahahahahahahah i like you ^^
You quite obviously just don't like me and this colors your view of absolutely everything I say. I don't empathize with others for myself. That doesn't make any sense. Just put me on ignore already. I've been around the forum for a while and leaving because you say I should is laughable. It's not going to happen.
“No psychologist should pretend to understand what he does not understand... Only fools and charlatans know everything and understand nothing.” -Anton Chekhov
http://kevan.org/johari?name=Bardia0
http://kevan.org/nohari?name=Bardia0
my issues with dj were based around actual character traits and his issues with me were based around me being ugly and having a penis or something. which is fine but for you to side with him against me while pretending to have some kind of moral high ground is absolutely ridiculous and obviously related to your dislike of me. side with whoever you want but if you're going to put on a pretense of empathetic good guy while doing it i'm going to call bullshit.
When I was in junior high school, someone started stealing my lunch from my locker almost every day. I was pretty skinny and really needed those lunches. So I made a special meal for the thief. I bagged up some Doritos coated in my mom's nastiest hairspray, and I made a PB, jelly, and skin cream sandwich. And my lunches never were stolen again after that.
LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
I don't care about your issues with him and my comment was not directed at you but at him. I don't even know why you responded to what I said as it had nothing to do with you. I wasn't "siding" with anyone but trying to empathize with him and tell him he's unlikely to get a lot of understanding around here at the current time. No one else in this thread thought I was siding against them and responded to my comment.
“No psychologist should pretend to understand what he does not understand... Only fools and charlatans know everything and understand nothing.” -Anton Chekhov
http://kevan.org/johari?name=Bardia0
http://kevan.org/nohari?name=Bardia0
I would say you are going thru a "quarter life crisis" sort of event DJ, and probably are still reforming your sense of self at this point. The leaving of the Navy, the unemployment, the distancing from your parents. I would caution that you be wary of scams in business, especially something like a "real estate club". I don't know the details on this, so let me know if I misread something. If you want to succeed in life it's going to be shitty. Not telling you to be a bank teller, but everything that sounds like a get rich quick scheme is generally going to be morally bankrupt. Unless you figure out how to do it yourself, nobody's helping anyone "get rich" without first getting their slice, generally much bigger than they deserve.
Anyways, good luck with work and achieving independence and all that but have a contingency plan.
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Ambivert / Aggressor / Trailblazer / Nomad / Alpha Caretaker / Free Spirit / Kevlar Speed Demon / Ninja
says the guy who has posted about absolutely nothing except "how can i get girls" and "why doesn't my family support my stupid plans" and "the reason my life sucks is because of E3s its all their fault" ever since he got here. you saw me talking about something emotional in the chatbox right now so you'd thought you would strike me while i was vulnerable. it just reinforces what a piece of shit you are. go fuck yourself.
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haha..unfortunately I was.. probably just a lurker at that point in time, but I still read. I googled ennegram types when I still worked as a lifeguard and couldn't understand why
so many of my coworkers I liked until we crossed the acquaintance barrier I got to know them better and then realized we were so incredibly different and I wasn't a fan...and from that I stumbled upon this site.
Ah. And I'm assuming this site has reflected the fact that you find many people distasteful when they express themselves in a...less filtered fashion But I think that's the point.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Ambivert / Aggressor / Trailblazer / Nomad / Alpha Caretaker / Free Spirit / Kevlar Speed Demon / Ninja
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Ambivert / Aggressor / Trailblazer / Nomad / Alpha Caretaker / Free Spirit / Kevlar Speed Demon / Ninja
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Perfect<------------------------------------------------------------------------------>Loops and Tings
Ambivert / Aggressor / Trailblazer / Nomad / Alpha Caretaker / Free Spirit / Kevlar Speed Demon / Ninja
The characterizations in your first post scream irrational extravert. Secondly, they scream extraverted sensation. Thirdly, they scream XXTp.
A rational type would emphasize the composedness of their character, whereas you were quick to emphasize the way you combine opposites, lying outside of easy definitions and categories. The inability to understand yourself or to introspect, whilst clearly exaggerated, suggest weak Ni. Difficulty in regulating/hiding your internal mood points to weak NiFe.
IMHO, non-socionics explanations probably do a better job of describing DJ's current state of mind, which obfuscates his real sociotype.
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
its really not that complicated. do you want me to explain in step-by-step detail why i don't like you? i think you would probably prefer if i didn't, but i can, if you want.
i came into this thread to put in my two cents and it got dragged out after that. i really don't care to keep it going at this point.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Sticking my nose in here, yadda yadda yadda.
I understand wanting to have smooth relations with people, especially when you have to face them in the future. I'm not denying your feelings here - you feel hurt, and that is what it is - but if you want a truce with someone, it works better when you are the one waving the white flag and giving ground. Demanding an apology won't work, no matter how entitled to one you may feel. Telling them to apologize for acting like a bitch tends to go over like a lead balloon. If you honestly want to resolve things, you have to be the bigger person and extend the hand of friendship (or mutual tolerance) first.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
My chihuahua goes over to her bowl and gets one piece of kibble. Then she brings it back to where I'm sitting and eats it next to my foot. Repeat x 20 pieces. That's sort of cute. But wait, now she's eating a magazine. Not cute. But wait, it's "Martha Stewart's Living," so I guess it's ok.
LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...