Quote Originally Posted by Fireyed View Post
It's not just me, though. He's constantly picking on all of his friends about their weight, workout habits & career choices. He's like a broken record..
That is good, he is a healthy SLE; you should worry if he didn't.

Otherwise, as an advice for bringing some balance in your life: go somewhere into the wild, work and eat as your body tells you. The idea is just get a grip, you rationalize too much, you should get out of this nefarious loop.