Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
Sounds like dude's a bit insecure about his own weight and life choices; try calling him a fatass sometime and see how he reacts.
Instead of responding to emotional abuse with emotional abuse, it might be time to take a break from this. There is no need to feel pressure to break up if that's too hard, but a little break might be in order.

I really think this is horrible and abusive and maybe you are lucky to see this side early on in the relationship. He seems to have control and self-esteem issues.

Perhaps a good starting recipe for eventual weight gain would be a good doctor and bloodwork, a good long break from the boyfriend and some self-pampering without the constant worrying about your weight.