You're welcome Starfall! But...
Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
Yeah... it's actually made me stop & consider if I really want to take things further with this relationship.

 
Yesterday he said my body looked really good & asked me to weigh myself. I refused to step on the scale to avoid drama (and I honestly don't feel like it's his business) and he got mad & told me that I was acting like a little girl. Finally, after he promised not to get mad or cause drama, I did it... and guess what? I got bitched at the rest of the night lol. After I reminded him that he thought I looked good earlier that day, he said it was probably because he was "blinded by love". It's ridiculous. I never complain about his flaws... he's actually overweight for his height and has a belly & love handles; none of which matter to me.

Rather than being supportive (which he was being at first) he's actually making me feel really badly about myself. Your significant other should never make you feel like a failure.

It's not just me, though. He's constantly picking on all of his friends about their weight, workout habits & career choices. He's like a broken record.


I want to get a full checkup. I've actually been meaning to get blood work done.
^ This? Is just fucked up. Seriously, start complaining about his body and see how he likes a taste of his own medicine. If he's going to be such a jackass about you gaining weight, the least he could do is try and get some washboard abs for you in return. Make it a square deal. And ffs... look at you. You're like a fucking model. Is he just looking for something to nitpick about your appearance to make himself feel better? How the hell is he complaining?