I figured that you'd been having some issues in that area when you asked me, but I didn't want to pry. Telling someone what you like in bed can require breaking out of your comfort zone (especially for Victim, types, I'd think), but I don't think that's necessarily a negative thing. I've learned more about what I really like by figuring out what I feel is lacking and discussing it with my boyfriend. It also helps to focus on what you both enjoy during sex; I'm sure there's some common ground or you wouldn't still be together, right?




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