Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
Did you have any sort of dual in your life before your husband? Maybe you're taking it for granted. Also, think about what kind of person you'd be/problems you might have if you'd married someone who was really wrong for you (and I don't mean just a non-dual but an unhealthy non-dual). You'd *most likely* be worse off for that. More stressed, etc. Not morally horrible! But less able to give to others and bring peace into the world.
I had a short dating relationship with a dual when I was 15-16ish. But I didn't have any duals in my family, or I don't think even any dual friends before my husband. I'm not better than I was then. I'm happier, but that's it.