Quote Originally Posted by Slacker View Post
I really think duality is being a bit romanticized in this thread. I've been in a dual marriage for like ever. I am happy but I don't think I'm a better person than before. I don't think my friends who are not in dual relationships, or for that matter who are not in any relationships, are worse.
Did you have any sort of dual in your life before your husband? Maybe you're taking it for granted. Also, think about what kind of person you'd be/problems you might have if you'd married someone who was really wrong for you (and I don't mean just a non-dual but an unhealthy non-dual). You'd *most likely* be worse off for that. More stressed, etc. Not morally horrible! But less able to give to others and bring peace into the world.