Well I don't know anyone who's happy and selfish. Everyone I know who is truly happy, is also kind and spreads it around to others. Sure you can be down on your luck and still be kind and "good" but if you're a psychological mess, my guess is that MOST of your free time is gonna go toward fixing your problems so that you can then make a difference to other.
Look, it's like in the airplane. There's a reason they tell you to put your own mask on first, in case of emergency. You can't be of any use to anyone else until your mask is securely fastened and if you're busy helping everyone else without a mask, you'll die eventually.



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