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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I agree that Maritsa is overidealizing but man, being around people who are emotionally compatible with me feels really good. It just heals and fixes me up and yeah the problem is I don't always need that. I don't always need balancing or whatever... it's just very nice if I'm in a harsh situation. There comes a time when everything is whole and balance and you found your perfect ideal romantic little love that you always whined about emo-ishly and then it's just like "Now what?" Other relationships and yourself is still important.

    And I don't like always picking apart why I get along with people and why I don't. It's just a vibe. It's like, crudely, either the person is sapping my energy and sort of socipathically breaking me up, or they're giving me a positive energy. (with all the complicated nuances in-between) There's not much objective or moral about it... all about vibrational wavelengths.
    Do you feel maybe being in a dual relationship might help us deal better with other relationships? even the one's who are not on the same wavelength?

    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    I just don't see how happier doesn't translate to better. If you're happy, you're more likely to want to spread that happiness to others. You're more likely to have extra energy to give away and help people, to do a good turn. I don't see how they're not, at least somewhat related.
    I think all the types might react to duality in different ways. I personally agree with you. I don't mean to speak for all IEIs but generally with our self doubt, lack of confidence, self criticism etc ( again not all IEIs ) when we experience duality it has a very specific effect on our weaknesses as IEIs. Claiming our self worth, being of value to the world, to ourselves etc all make us more confident in our lives, visions and dreams. So it might feel like being happy and balanced translates to being a better person, because our own association of happiness, betterment and kindness might be more linked. Also it might have to do with our own individual goals and desires. You probably wanted to share your talents and joy with the world in a certain way and duality helped you achieve that goal.

    Ausra felt duality is very important to people and also to society as a whole. A balanced mind makes for a happy disposition and probably brings out humanities best side? Instability, unhappiness etc just fuels more disharmony in society with building negativity. Of course there are other ways of achieving harmony etc but duality would also lead to it I guess.
    Last edited by Kent Lorne; 05-07-2012 at 09:56 PM.

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