Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
I agree that Maritsa is overidealizing but man, being around people who are emotionally compatible with me feels really good. It just heals and fixes me up and yeah the problem is I don't always need that. I don't always need balancing or whatever... it's just very nice if I'm in a harsh situation. There comes a time when everything is whole and balance and you found your perfect ideal romantic little love that you always whined about emo-ishly and then it's just like "Now what?" Other relationships and yourself is still important.

And I don't like always picking apart why I get along with people and why I don't. It's just a vibe. It's like, crudely, either the person is sapping my energy and sort of socipathically breaking me up, or they're giving me a positive energy. (with all the complicated nuances in-between) There's not much objective or moral about it... all about vibrational wavelengths.
I think it's nice being with a dual. I'm married to one and I'm glad about that. But I don't think it makes me a better person. It might make me a happier person, but that's it.

And I'm tired of every thread turning into a discussion of Maritsa and Maritsa's life.