Quote Originally Posted by Slacker View Post
to me good person = someone who is kind and does good in the world. I don't see how duality would make that happen. It could make someone more selfish and self absorbed and all about their relationship as much as it could help them be a better person. And coming from difficult relationshps could make someone empathize with others in bad situations and make that person a better person.
Sure anyone can be a "good" person by that definition. I guess I'm talking more about realizing your best potential, and through that, giving the world the gift of yourself. Whether that means to start a business (and through that venture, be kind every day and good to your employees), or raise a family, or open a soup kitchen or fly a plane... whatever your calling or talent. I mean, one can be a good person no matter what and I agree that duality doesn't have anything to do with that sort of thing. I'm just saying that you can potentially have more to offer the world when you're a psychologically healthy individual and getting to that place is easier when you have a dual in your life, whether it be a close friend or partner.