Quote Originally Posted by Agee The Great View Post
I understand Galen, but have you ever experienced this -need- to meet your dual again, overwhelming urge to be with them...even if you've never spent much time with them or even met them before? Im not talking about the certain occasions where you weren't that interested in your dual, im refering to an ideal situation where you are attracted to your dual. (Im not making much sense right now, im half asleep).
I have experienced this before fairly recently with a Te-SLI 9w8 sx/sp. Despite our sexual incompatibilities, we made an instant connection with each other and we're now best friends. He's sort of on a different wavelength emotionally from me (very much a positive-outlook variant of E9 versus my self-involved E6 reactivity), but it's still very easy for us to open up about ourselves and what we want; no real need to explain our positions to each other, it's just a matter of "oh yeah, I get that." I still posit that instinct stacking is more influential in how we get along, and without that our attraction to each other wouldn't have been as strong.

FWIW I've had that experience with a non-dual as well, a Te-INTp. So don't let the prospect of duality be everything in terms of how two people get along.