Agrina, that doesn't sound like Se polr. Maybe to EIIs. I don't know.

Why would you talk about not being able to assert yourself with anyone? In fact that's the most striking element of a polr function. You just don't talk about your polr. I don't care if I'm overreacting or being overly aggressive (nor would I appreciate anyone commenting on it), if I'm pissed off then I'm pissed off, end of discussion.