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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Explain to me how you are Se-PoLR.
    the spoiler didn't work for some reason, so people who aren't interested just skip this

    Why I'm a Ne creative Se polr

    - I have no clue of my surroundings: I have a tendency to bump into people and objects because I'm thinking about stuff and don't notice them. Like I often don't see there's a car coming when I start crossing a road. And ehm, quite a few times a friend of mine has told me that some guy has been glancing at my direction looking interested for some time, but I haven't even noticed him. Or someone has said hello to me, but I haven't seen them either. I also often miss it if someone says something to me because I'm thinking about stuff and simply don't hear them.

    - I suck at physical activities. I failed handicrafts in elementary school and almost didn't pass high school because of PE. I'm horrible at ball games, the ball never goes where I want it to. I don't like the feel of exercising and have always been the slowest runner and weakest armwrestler I know. I can't take pain and whine relatively easily when I'm hurt (just ask aqua, it's annoying). I don't really feel my body unless consciously concentrare on it, so I get a lot of problems like backpain from sleeping in poor positions etc.

    - I have a problem with taking aggressive behaviour too seriously. I get alarmed if someone talks to me in a way that shows signs of disapproval/negative feelings. I have a tendency to take it too personally and think there's something wrong with me (rather than blaming the other person or the situation etc). I'm afraid of confrontation because I can't control people in pleasant situations either. I sometimes have a difficulty getting my voice heard in a group, and it's easy for others to interrupt me.

    - I have a certain tendency to turn into a doormat, even though I'm trying to fight it. It's not too difficult to take an advantage of me. E.g. if a person who has lent money from me before but never paid back asks for another loan I need to use my willpower not to bend under the pressure. If I know for sure someone had wronged me I often just stay quiet about it and won't say anything to them because I'm afraid they'd not take me seriously and/or that it wouldn't change anything. I may also talk about it to other people to see if they're on my side or think I'm overreacting. If I get pissed off enough to actually raise the subject I still fear that they'll laugh at me, so I may act overly aggressive.

    - When it comes to relationships, I focus on the future potential and not the things that have actually happened. I don't think much about how the person hurt me this time and that and hence is not to be trusted, but rather whether I think I can possibly (learn to) trust them/make the relationship work in the future.

    - I have difficulties in telling what colours match, which makes buying new clothes or furniture really unpleasant. I also suck at cooking, especially spices are difficult. I don't know what taste goes well with what so I'll usually just follow a cookbook or let someone else do it (or try something new and end up with some real strange food). I'm oblivious to my looks, too. In the scale of 4 to 10 I can't tell whether I'd be closer to a 5 or a 9. Describing experiences/opinions related to the senses is actually difficult in general. I can't tell why I like or don't like some music (what aspect of the song I enjoy).

    - I wholly relate to the infantile romance style description, but not to the aggressor one.

    - I suck at recognizing my bodily needs. I often can't tell period pain apart from hunger, and can sometimes go for too long without eating and start feeling weak because I don't remember I haven't eaten. It usually takes a while before I realise hunger is the reason I'm tired and dizzy.

    - I don't live in the moment, but the past and the future. I'm always thinking about some philosophical or political questions or analyzing my relationships and things that have happened or could happen, and not enjoying the moment for what it is.

    - I'm really awkward about physical touch. I sure like it if people hug me or pet me or play with my hair etc, but I can't be the one initiating the contact. When someone cries and I need to hug them to comfort them it's like speaking to a crowd in a foreign language I've never even learnt.

    Lol, I just realised this probably makes me sound damn annoying.
    Last edited by willekeurig; 05-03-2012 at 11:52 PM.
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